Confessions from a Dorm

Summery:
This is a true story of many of my embarrassing, comical, serious and spiritual experiences in a Bible School in Guatemala, Central America where I went to study for two years after my high school graduation. These are moments of first experiences as well as my reactions and my true thoughts. It was a time of rebirth, growth, as well as many truths that I discovered along the way, not only about the Scripture, but about people in general, diversity, and myself.

Note: I have changed the names of individuals I interact with in my story to protect their identity as well as to respect their privacy. It is suffice to say that while their names have been protected, they are most certainly based on real people who I lived with for those two years.

I will be updating it periodically

 

Confessions from a Dorm

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Appearances Can Be Deceiving

It felt surreal. I squeezed my eyes shut and opened them again, blinking repeatedly. I am really here! I had thought that if I squeezed my eyes tight enough, I would open them to find myself back at home in my own room. I couldn't believe it. Am I regretting my choice? I placed my doubts on the balance, trying to measure them. In the end, I still didn't have an answer as my mind continued thinking, I am really here.

I believe everyone has their place in this world and that God gives us different abilities to use for the benefit of others and His glory. During the biblical course “The Tabernacle of Moses” the instructor went over many aspects of the tabernacle that the Israelites built in the desert. We had been approaching the items used for the tabernacle’s construction and their significance when my mind had chosen somewhere around that time to daydream. So when the instructor mentioned the Spanish word garfio, all I had understood was “Garfield”. Garfield? As in the fat orange cat? What does Garfield have to do with any of this this? During our 15 minute intermission, I asked around and found out it was really garfio or hook.

The instructor had mentioned that in life we are like those wooden boards that stand upright together, but in that body are also brethren that must serve as hooks to link us together to one another. He went on to explain that these hooks represent ‘to place another on fire’. As they connect one board to another they dig into them, causing pain, representing people who like to be ‘hooks’, making people mad.

One blessed sister whom all students were obliged to see once a month when paying their monthly subscription was immediately dubbed Sister Garfio in my mind that morning. 

It was quite a narrow climb towards that admission building to her little kingdom on top. Prior to coming to Bible school, I had been warned. Nevertheless, I don’t think anyone can ever truly prepare themselves to meet Sister Garfio.

It had been on my arrival that I was called almost immediately into her office. My name had been voiced on the intercom for the first time. I had thought it was cool.

            After introductions Sister Garfio bluntly said “You’re paperwork isn't in order”. I frowned. I had thought I’d been careful with everything. I had received my shots, I had my passport… “I can’t send your paperwork to the embassy to file for your visa without a stamp on this paper” she said gruffly while pointing to a document. “Don’t you Americans know how to read?” her lips seemed set on a firm pout. I turned different shades of red at her biting remark. I didn't know what to say. What was there to say? How do you answer that? Am I supposed to answer that?

            Somehow I managed to form some words, “Many of us do read, but it doesn't mean we necessarily understand everything.” Was that a smart answer? I worried afterwards. Maybe that was a rhetoric question, but she had looked up at me from behind her small round glasses as if she had expected something so…I panicked! And answered her. I had felt provoked, but only because I was scared and for the first time feeling threatened by such a confrontational person. Geeze, here I was on my first day and I couldn't even take this old lady’s remark? My mother was forever telling me, “when people are old they don’t reason as much, you should just try to give them their way instead of expecting them to understand.” But with her verbal attack I wasn't feeling as meek as my mother. 

I didn’t have a Guatemalan sim card for my cell phone yet, so I was forced to dial a collect call that morning to my home. I knew both my parents were at work so had little hope someone would answer the phone and tell me what to do. What if no one answered? Would they leave me out in the street? I naively wondered. I didn't know anyone in Guatemala and I had nowhere else to go! Internally I suppose I realized it wouldn't have happened, it being a Christian Bible school, but at the moment with my experience, I didn't think there was any Christian charity in that woman. I hoped she had a heart of gold somewhere in there.

            “Hello?” I heard William’s voice on the line. I felt a lump in my throat and took a deep breath.

            “Will?” I gasped out. I answered quickly before an embarrassing sob could come out. I never cried in front of my family if I could help it. It wasn't due to any cultural reason, rather personal. I saw it putting my emotional weakness in display. It was much too personal, and I felt exposed when others saw my tears. “Umm…I’m here.” I paused each time to breathe in deeply. “It looks like...” I blinked repeatedly, fighting the tears that threatened my already stinging eyes, “something is missing...Sister Violeta (Sister Garfio) said…I need a stamp…from the embassy?” I don’t know if I imagined it, but it seemed as if William could see me through the phone. I had always been very private with my feelings at home so it had surprised me to feel as if knew me better than I had let on at this moment. Perhaps he was remembering his own experience with Sister Violeta, or maybe he could hear it in my frequent pauses, short gasps, or broken voice.

            “Okay, I’ll tell dad when he gets home. Don’t worry” he repeated over and over, “Don’t worry. You know Sister Violeta? She’s always like that. But don’t worry, everything is going to be okay. We'll figure it out.” I almost let out a sob of relief as he tried to comfort me through the phone. I felt his connection that ran through curled tendrils from the black phone that I held. I almost wished he hadn’t tried to though because it was so difficult to hold back that cry of relief.

I could only bob my head up and down and answer “uhuh, yeah ok” wishing I had some tissue for my runny nose. I was still trying to hold myself together, trying to cage my sobs that begged to escape. But my pride ran through, a stronger force that quieted them down and made them lie dormant for another day. It would have to wait for a more convenient time.

That was some welcome, but as the year went by and I continued to visit Sister Viole every month, I began to notice something from that old lady with salt and pepper hair. I began to identify myself with the stoical woman behind those pastel business suits. She was a hardcore woman. A tough cookie to crack. And I was a lot like her, very strong willed. I would eventually make more trips to her office out of my own free will and talk about some of my goals, sometimes fiddling with the items on her desk like I had done with my father’s desk as a child.

            “What are you doing?” she asked the first time grouchily.

            “I’m just organizing your paperclips and rubber bands.” I looked up at her innocently. She would go back to ignoring me for a few minutes before picking up the conversation again.

            “Well you know, some people come in here and mess up my papers and then I can't find them” she muttered. I learned to nod sympathetically like a therapist with my oh's and mmm's. From my visits I learned that she was widowed at a young age and forced to be the sole bread winner for her daughters. I would go on to learn that Sister Violeta had survived the terrifying years of guerrilla warfare in Nicaragua as well. She had had a very hard life, but despite that she was alive and working at Bible school, serving in the best way she knew how. I like to think she developed some affection for me. I know she watched me, otherwise she wouldn't have taken notice of my awkward walk.

            “Get back here,” she said one day as I was leaving her office. “You walk wrong.” By this time I had grown very accustomed to her frankness and didn't take any offense. I simply assented, because even my own mother said I walked funny. To this day my shoulders seem to tense whenever I walk in public. “Your steps are too big too, watch this.” After making me watch her petite form walk up and down the hallway, an arm stretched outward holding an imaginary purse, she made me repeat her example. My mother had only given me one lesson with heals before my fifteenth birthday, but aside from that, I had always taken large steps to catch up to William’s and my father’s large gait. Old habits die hard and I am sorry to say that Sister Violeta walking lessons didn’t quite stick, but I did make an effort when I knew she was around my perimeter.

Some of my first year experiences had been strenuous, scary, and bizarre, but I am grateful for all of them. Had it not been for those early hours volunteering in the kitchen, initial isolation, and even Sister Violeta—yes, even her, I might not have known some of my strengths and weaknesses. I might not have learned that through God’s grace, I would find the means to overcome them and found experiences that would help the new students in the following year.

El Hijo de Dios es Glorificado Hoy en Dia.

JUAN 11:4 Oyéndolo Jesús, dijo: Esta enfermedad no es para muerte, sino para la gloria de Dios, para que el Hijo de Dios sea glorificado por ella.

Esto es una experiencia que me paso en el 2011 y quiero aprovechar los medios que están a mi deposición para compartir este testimonio con otros.

Quiero decir que el nombre del Hijo de Dios sigue siendo glorificado hoy en medio de cosas que parecieran tan triviales, o parte de la vida cotidiana. Sin embargo, aun esas cosas pequeñas le son de importancia a Dios y toma la oportunidad de mostrarnos su mano poderosa en nuestras vidas.

¿Quienes piensas que hay coincidencias?
Yo no creo eso. Yo se que todo lo que nos ocurre como hijos de Dios es por un propósito, aun cuando parecen ser malas, Dios los torna en una bendición para nuestras vidas.

En Noviembre del 2011 yo acababa de graduarme de un instituto Biblico en Guatemala. Estaba de regreso en casa, lista para buscar trabajo y ahorrar para mis estudios de la Universidad.
Tambien había ingresado como concursante en la memorización del evangelio de Juan con otros jóvenes en mi iglesia.

Estaba en el proceso de aplicar en varios lugares y al final....casi se me olvidaba algo importante. Finalmente, me recorde de ponerme de rodillas y orar, "Dios, aqui eh aplicado a varios lugares, porfavor que en el lugar que me llamen sea el lugar que quieres para mi."

....Pasaron unas semanas, "¿Eh Dios?....sigo esperando...esta bien, lo que tu quieras."
Mmm...no me llamaban, mas bien había recibido correos de rechazo.
Decidi intentar un lugar mas...y de ahi me llamaron.

Listo, gracias Señor, pense. Ya tenia una entrevista.
Pero el dia de la entrevista, parecia que todo lo malo que podría suceder....sucedió.

Por empezar, mi mama me hizo el favor de llevar....pero al centro comercial equivocado, e insistia que era ese.

Bueno, me baje, entre a las oficinas, después de esperar un rato me dicen que estoy en la tienda correcta pero el centro comercial equivocada.

Llegue de regreso al carro, un poco frustrada porque ya se estaba haciendo tarde. Había perdido demasiado tiempo ya. Ademas, mi mama estaba frustrada tambien y me culpaba de no haber sido mas clara con las direcciones.

Bueno, tal vez haya esperanza. Pero ese pensamiento rapidamente fue puesto a prueba cuando el vehículo no quiso prender. Intentamos como 3-4 veces. Ahi si estaba luchando dentro de mis emociones y pensamientos. No queria reaccionar mal en momentos así. Miraba mi resume de trabajo que debía entregar mientras mi mama lidiaba con el vehículo.

"¿Como me puede estar sucediendo esto?...Dios ¿que esta pasando? Ore que en el lugar de donde me llamaran, que ahi fuera el lugar que tu tenias para mi, y solo de aqui me han llamado..."
En el momento que casi iba hacerle berrinche a Dios el me trae a mente un versículo que acababa de memorizar.

Juan 11:4 Esta enfermedad no es para muerte, sino para la gloria de Dios, para que el Hijo de Dios sea glorificado por ella.

De repente, todo fue aclarado. Me calme, Dios me dio un paz serene y pude empezar a confiar en el. Voltee a mi mama y pude compartirle lo mismo. Ya no tenia preocupación. Si Dios me queria dar el trabajo, no hay nada imposible para el y seria para la honra y la gloria de su nombre si aun así me dieran el trabajo. Y si no, aceptaba que no era el lugar ni el momento para mi.

Al llegar al local correcto, no había terminado la prueba aun. Mi mama solo tenia una hora para esperarme, si no me atendían durante ese tiempo  tendríamos que ir para que ella se fuera al trabajo.

A pesar de que había llegado demasiado tarde, decidieron verme. Cuando la primera persona me dio la entrevista le pregunte que tan pronto uno podría saber si le habían dado el trabajo o no. Me dijo que usualmente, tienen como 2 o 3 entrevistas con la persona antes de que decidan darle el trabajo. Cuando llego la 2a persona ya vino con los papeles para finalizar todo.

Y así fue como Dios me dio mi primer trabajo. Después de haber llegado tan tarde que era ridículo, y todas la inconveniencias en el camino, pero cuando Dios quiere hacer algo, no importa las circunstancias.

A veces suceden cosas que uno piensa que arruinan todo, pero no es para muerte sino para traerle gloria Dios.
Confíen en el.